I told everyone I’d keep them updated as Ian and I went through the process of getting our wills. We did the deed Wednesday with our lawyer, Helene Parker. (It makes me feel all hoity-toity and grown up to say “my/our lawyer”). She’s a lesbian, and has a gay staff. Well, at the very least the token older gay fag. They’re very casual and a lot of fun. She made sure we understood everything, but still kept it simple and quick.

Ian and I created a will, financial power of attorney, medical power of attorney, living will/medical directive, and something I think was called direction for disposition of remains (basically, what to do when we die, who do we want to handle the burial, do we want a cremation, etc.). They’re all useful documents and you should consider getting them. It is a little money, but it’s generally a one time investment. I liked that she told us how to update and amend some of them appropriately that won’t require another visit (and more money). While many of us are blessed with happy families and friends who get along and will cooperate with whatever plans are created, it doesn’t hurt to make sure things are legallly covered. Especially for the GLBT community, your partner is at great risk until you take care of these documents.